Mirror Work-Facing your biggest Fear-YOU!

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Hey You,

As I gaze into the mirror, I can't help but marvel at the radiant joy, peace, and happiness that beams back at me after half a century of living. It's a moment of profound connection with the person who has weathered storms, demonstrated resilience, and showcased an unyielding determination. I find myself asking, "How on earth are you still standing?" You've faced challenges that have shattered others, yet here you are, standing tall with a badge of honor, a testament to your unwavering strength.

I appreciate the journey you've taken, the hurdles you've overcome, and the masks you've worn. There were times when you believed those masks were the key to happiness and success. The constant decision of which mask to wear for each person, the exhausting effort to fit into expectations—no wonder it left you weary. The outer world, as you rightly point out, mirrors the chaos within. But now, you've shed those masks and stand in front of the mirror as your authentic self.

 The mornings begin with setting intentions, a commitment to authenticity. It's a revelation that being true to oneself dispels chaos, fear, and insecurity. The void of lack has dissipated, and for the first time, you feel fulfilled. In this moment, you realize you lack nothing.

No more playing small to a world that once made you feel invisible. You've embraced the name "Bright Star" given by your parents, acknowledging the brilliance within. Thanks to Mom and Dad, who laid the foundation for your lessons, you've navigated through life's ups and downs. The journey was about discovering what makes you genuinely happy, establishing non-negotiables, boundaries, and values that make you light up.

Your focus has shifted from constantly seeking to make others happy to teaching the invaluable lesson of self-love and authenticity. The wisdom gained is shared, creating a ripple effect that reaches far beyond yourself. You've learned that by teaching individuals to be authentic and love themselves, you contribute to breaking generational curses, healing wounds that linger through time.

As you stand before the mirror, you extend gratitude to all versions of yourself, whispering, "I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you." It's a moment of reconciliation, of embracing every facet of your being. Together, all those versions have led to the person you see today—happy, healthy, and wealthy in life. This, you recognize, is true alignment.

So, here's to you—the bright star who has illuminated the path to authenticity, self-love, and fulfillment. May your radiance continue to shine, lighting the way for others on their journeys.

 

With love, gratitude, and admiration,

Your Truest Self

 


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